What is also at Ke’e, is the trailhead of the Kalalau Trail,
or the Na Pali coast hike. If you have seen Jurassic Park, South Pacific, Six
Days/Seven Nights, King Kong with Jessica Lange, Pirates of the Caribbean—you
have seen the Na Pali coast. It is only
accessible by water, helicopter or hiking.
I have visited Kauai six times, and every time I say that I
will hike part of the Na Pali coast. Never have. Why? Lazy, yes--but that’s too
simplistic. My lazy is deeply rooted in a lifetime of viewing myself as the
overweight kid who was last in any laps running during PE or countless team
practices. I was embarrassed by my body—the
suit of armor I carried to protect myself from dealing with my emotions or my sexuality.
My lazy was intertwined with my not wanting to fail, look bad, be made fun of, or
be fully seen. My form of lazy led me to gain weight in the run-up to my
wedding—to really make sure I would still be wanted or loved—more armor, more
padding so I wouldn’t get hurt so much by the rejection. If I don’t try—no
glory, no reward, but I also get to stay safe. Existing, not thriving.
So, about this hike.
This year was the year to try. So, bolstered by my traveling companions
and the promise of amazing views—up we start. We know that at ¼ mile is the
first lookout and at ½ mile is the view of the entire coastline. Easy, right? Ten minute walk on the streets
of NYC. We are not in NYC! This trail is
straight up the side of a mountain—loose rock, big fall away, waterfalls create
slippery/slimy little hazards to maneuver. Big fun!! We are passed by younger
hikers—and trail runners--but on we push.
We made the first ¼ mile in about 20 minutes. Panting, happy
to stop for photo ops, not dead yet and not embarrassed yet. Hopeful even. At this point, two of our party who had
chosen flip-flops as hiking gear decide to return down the mountain. I had an out.
I didn’t have to go on. What to
do?
Apparently, I have a moment with God. A voice in my head
said loud and clear: “You are the
youngest one in this group. Why do you keep treating yourself less than? You can
do this. You are stronger and more agile than you know. Move up the mountain.”
So I did. I maneuvered boulders, on-coming tourists and 20-mile per hour wind
gusts to stand at the ½ mile marker and see the Na Pali coast and the Northern
coastline from way up on a cliff. My legs were tired, but I did it. No confetti
or parades—but I did my own little internal happy dance.
We weren’t done yet. After 45 minutes up, it was back down
the trail. And for me, down was a lot
easier. I work better with gravity than against it. I actually bounded down the
mountain—faster was working for me. Yes, my legs were sore the next day, but I
not only survived, I got the photos to prove it.
My lessons—let go of old stories that are not supporting my
thriving. No risk means no reward. I now want to get out of my comfort zone
more—see what else I can do or become. I
want to start pushing my physical limits as much as my career, intellectual and
creative edges. What can I do if I
weren’t concerned about how others might see me, what they might think?
How cool would that be?
I’ll let you know.
It's so easy to let past beliefs dictate our actions but they will continue to do so until we can identify them. Then at least we have a chance to let a new understanding develop. Thanks for showing me the way.
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